I couldn't get the answers on the dimensions from anyone so I bought a set of stock ball joints and installed them. Looks like it solved all the issues. Tires seem to be sitting straight up and down and pointing straight forward with adjustment left in the tie rods. Guess I'll just leave it like it is for now.

Think you're all set now. Dropped, tall spindles should improve handling. I have stock spindles so if you want to dump those tall ball joints let me know what you want for them and the make.