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in case i didn't say before my wife is pregnant. and since last week she has had some issues. She is bleeding not a lot but she is bleeding and the doctors are not finding anything. She is just very scared and worried because we are not in the safe zone yet. so please just pray for her tonight when you go to bed and her name is Claudia thank you guys!
Shaun

You got it Shaun. All the best to Claudia and you.

I will pray for you......

Prayers sent ,hope all goes well .Keep us posted on how she and the baby are doing .

Tonight my litle angel Gabriel, who is 8 years old, will pray for Claudia and the baby.
That it ease Sahun, I went trought it whem Paty was pregnant...all we can do is to take good care of them.

Shaun, you and Claudia will be in my thoughts and prayers for the weeks to come.

Now I am sure that the doctor has probably told her to stay off her feet, possibly stay in bed. She is not to lift anything heavy, no going up and down steps, no exercising and a bunch of stuff like that. I will tell you to make sure she does NOTHING. Even when she says she "Feels better", take it very slow. She is carrying precious cargo and you need to make sure she is a "Lazy Bumm" until further notice by the doctor.

Give her a hug, a kiss, tell her you love her, then smile, and laugh and keep positive thoughts. Keep the positive energy going.

Shaun, you and Claudia will be our family prayers.

well after spending the afternoon in the ER we lost the baby :( it was very very hard on us and still hard. She was 9 weeks into it and lost it. She is in good spirits now and it didn't hit me until my wife asked me what do we do with the sonogram. So i am very sad but ok about it because my wife is fine and healthy

Sorry to hear that. :(

Sorry to hear about your loss. My wife and I have been there ourselves.

Prayers sent.

Shaun, I am so sorry. I wish there was something that I could say. You and your wife will be in my thoughts. Please make sure you tell her you love her....you both need each other right now, more than ever.

Sorry to hear of your loss but glad your wife is OK .Still sending our prayers for you .

Very sorry for you and your wife's loss! I know it's hard, but take peace in knowing that God has your baby with him now. I'll be praying for both of you!

Thank you everyone!

So sorry for you loss, glad to hear your wife it ok. Keep your chin up and you'll get through it. Best wishes.

thanks a lot! we are rebounding pretty well. i think we feel kind of normal now. joking and goofing around. only thing left is she has a little pain and cramping but she is ok as well. but we feel normal again some what. but thank you so much everyone!

I missed your post on this Shaun, sorry for your lose. Glad that you and Claudia are doing well.

Yes, so sorry to hear about this. It's good you're able to move forward. (both of you) Just know that this isn't your last chance to add to your family. After Claudia heals completely, (emotionally and physically) there's no reason to not try again.

You must be going through a tough time, so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your wife get better.

thanks again everyone! we are doing well she is home resting and she basically twisted my arm and said you need to go to work. but tomorrow i am taking off so i can go with her to the doctor. I made a big joke about it which made her laugh. I told her its perfect that you are going to the doctor and i am taking the day off.
She said o yeah why?
I said call of duty comes out tomorrow so i can play it all day :)

she said well you are back to normal!..lol

I kind of feel like i have to be that way to keep her mind off it. She was blaming herself and putting a lot on her by not trying to move forward. I guess this is my way of getting back to the normal life. I even took an inventory of what i need for my car...lol

don't get me wrong it hit me like a ton of bricks satuday when she said to me "well i guess we can throw away the sonogram"
i literally went to my room and just started crying! but i am doing ok now and all my focus and energy is with making her get better and return to normal!

Time will heal you both ,prayers dont hurt either .

Shaun you are being a great husband. Keeping your wifes spirits up. I know it is hard for you too, but I am sure it made you feel good when you made her smile.


"don't get me wrong it hit me like a ton of bricks satuday when she said to me "well i guess we can throw away the sonogram"
i literally went to my room and just started crying! but i am doing ok now and all my focus and energy is with making her get better and return to normal!"

Just my opinion, don't throw the sonogram away. It is a difficult memory, but it is something that should be packed away somewhere til she is ready to deal with it. If she is like a lot of us, she will want to remember...

i dont know what she did with the sonogram i dont want to know and i am not going to ask her as well. be she is pretty much normal she is watching dancing with the stars and having fun with my daughter :)

It takes time, but I am glad to hear she is doing better.

Glad you're both doing well. It's not over yet, you'll have your ups and downs but it'll get better.

well after doing a lot of testing we found out what the issue was. I am very upset about it but it is what it is. A few years back my wife and i got into a fight about her weight. Not that she is not sexy to me or anything i was very concerned about it because of her family history. she is now a diabetic and now on meds. When she was pregnant her sugar spiked to 257 then when she miscarraged her sugar was at 314. So after all the test and blood work the doctor said she is a diabetic. So now she has to loose the 40 pounds that i fought with her about. she has to take pills every day for the rest of her life and when she gets pregnant again she is going to be on insulin. But at least we caught it now. And now she has no choice but to loose the lbs or loose her life to this illness!

Shaun:

Sorry to hear about the loss and now the additional health issues. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Durand

Shaun, she has to get her diabetes under control. My grandmother was diabetic, my sister is borderline and my wife's cousins husband was. It can take years off her life and just make life miserable. My grandmother lost her eyesight, and most of her toes because of it. My wife's cousins husband lost both legs below the knees. It can be managed but only if she's serious. If you have to scare the hell out of her about what this disease can do, then do it.

Diabetes is a tough one but with work can be controlled .My wife has been on shots (many per day) since she was a teenager and for the most part can keep it in check .Sometimes it will spike on her for no reason and she has to take extra insulin to get it back down but it can be done .Exercise is very good to help regulate blood sugar too.

My wife is a diabetic also,has been since 7th grade.Her health has been pretty good,but I can see her going downhill the older she gets.

yeah that is what i am worried about. I dont want to see the years taken from her because of this. I am working hard on getting it done. I told her the monday after thanksgiving we will get started with boot camp and diet. She knows that i don't mess around when it comes to training. from playing sports all my life and other training that i have i will whip her and myself back in to shape by summer time :)

Shaun don't be mad at me for saying this, but I keep hearing how you feel about boot camp. How does she feel ? I know this has to do with her health and well being, but she has to be "on board totally" to make this work. I am in no way saying she shouldn't lose the weight, I am just saying that she needs to be in the right frame of mind, and with your recent loss you may have to really work on her mental well being first. I wish you all the best.

I wish I lived closer to you cause I could lose a few pounds and I would probably come and do the boot camp with you.

What do you guys think about starting a thread to give positive reinforcement for those of us struggling with the weight loss. Maybe some suggestions that worked for you. I know this sounds like a woman thing, but alot of us struggle with our weight. Just a thought.

I lost 30 pounds in a week.

lol the most i have ever lost in a week was 14 pounds how did you do 30?..lol