To my friends here,pray for my wife.

[Ms Grumpy]

No one does, but remember Maureen is going through hell. Unfortunately she is lashing out at the people she loves the most. Just know that she does not mean what she is saying, and let your daughter know that. Maureen just needs to let it out.

How is your mother-in-law today?

Keep the faith Gary.

[grandsport]

They have stopped feeding her as of Friday,hopefully it won't be much longer.

[Ms Grumpy]

Awe...

I take it that was a family decision. Poor Maureen, she is watching her mom fade away.

I remember you saying that Maureens sibling/siblings are not much help a while back. Have they stepped up since things are getting worse?

[Hank70SS]

Lindsay knows what's going on and I'm sure she understands. Like I said before, you, Lindsay, whoever is close is going to catch hell. Fair, no, but that's the way it is.

Depending on overall health her mom could last a week, sounds like less in her case. It's hard to watch someone fade away so try to understand what Maureen is going through. Mom's and adult daughters can have an awful strong bond. Women don't accept that this is a part of life the way men do either. The next few days are going to be bad, not for her mom but for Maureen. In her state her mom's body will just slowly shut down. It sounds cruel but it's not. The hunger passes and they don't feel any pain. The organs just shut down until it's over. Not easy to watch, we watched Lynda's father go that way, but it's not cruel, they go peacefully.

Hang in there Gary, your best friend is having her insides ripped out right now. It will be over soon and it will get better.

[chevguy65]

Originally Posted by grandsport

They have stopped feeding her as of Friday,hopefully it won't be much longer.

God bless her and your wife and family as well.

This is not easy for any of you and my prayer for her is that she go quietly and without discomfort.
My prayer for Maureen is peace and tranquility knowing that her mom is going to be with God soon and my prayer for you and the family is also for peace and comfort and to comfort Maureen as much as possible.

[grandsport]

It's just really hard for me and Lindsay to understand why she is so mean and hateful,that's all. I would think at a time like this a person would be kind and loving.

[shadowgray396]

Originally Posted by chevguy65

God bless her and your wife and family as well.

This is not easy for any of you and my prayer for her is that she go quietly and without discomfort.
My prayer for Maureen is peace and tranquility knowing that her mom is going to be with God soon and my prayer for you and the family is also for peace and comfort and to comfort Maureen as much as possible.

Well said Amen

[Hank70SS]

Originally Posted by grandsport

It's just really hard for me and Lindsay to understand why she is so mean and hateful,that's all. I would think at a time like this a person would be kind and loving.

She's in pain Gary, it's tearing her up. I'm not saying it's right but it's her way of dealing with it. At a time like this she probably wants her mom and that obviously doesn't work. Don't try to understand it, it is what is. Everybody deals with situations like this in their own way.

[flash]

Gary,Maureen doesnt realize what she is saying or doing is hurting you and Lindsay. She is in survival mode and stressed out and may never realize how hard things have been for you. Just hang in there and give her space when she needs it and hugs and support when you can. Her medical problems also dont help ,been there .More than anything she needs your understanding and support. You have our support ,we will help if we can.

[Ms Grumpy]

So how are things today Gary? I have been thinking about you and your family today. I hope that Maureen is taking care of herself.