Well we had dinner with Chase who is a foster kid we have taken an interest in and spend time with once a week .He brought up the subject of sex and told us he and his lady friend are not yet active in that regard and the following conversation was quite funny as we never expected to be giving advice to a 19 year old about not having sex until after his studies are finished .I told him he would be much better off to think with the right head and he cracked up but agreed .We had several good laughs during this conversation and the talk was easier than I would have thought but he is open to any discussion .He is an interesting kid to say the least .