Stuck between a rock and a hard spot...

[Ms Grumpy]

Originally Posted by carpoor

Trust me, I have decided that I am done with him. But, maybe it's just the type of person I am... I still wish I could help the guy somehow. It really makes me wonder what is going so wrong that he would do this. I've known the guy 10+ years, and this is way out of character for him. It just doesn't add up, and it is eating at me. I hate to see someone I call friend self-destruct.

It is hard. But not your fault. Unfortunately, being the kind of guy you are, someone with a concious, makes it hard to move on. Sorry to say that, but it is true and you need to separate yourself from this situation.